Solitude

I used to write lot of poems during college, an art which faded down over the years....I can pen melancholic poems better and what best , when I can frame one of a fictional entity from my figment of imagination. Especially when I think of my late dad, and when I miss him a lot. I miss him for the amount of love,security,care,strength,confidence he imbibed in me with just mere things in life.I always miss his presence, and always drop a tear wishing he was NEAR. This father's day I missed you so much "Daddy"

In Silence there flows a tear

Resilience is a  fear

Never can the broken soul mend

What's spent shall never amend

How did I become the beast

The tearful prayer became just a feast

Why did I try to win,

When ultimately winning became sin,

If sin was the reward of sincere

Shall sincere become just a midnight leer.....

These were my pics taken few days before my birthday that happened to fall this month. 

I hope all of my blog readers have been doing good.Until next post, wishing you all a blessed life.

Random waves 1

It's late night
My mini is still rolling on bed bcoz he's supposed to sleep, but he slept 4 hrs straight in the evening. And now I am tugged at constantly. Hmm !!!
I lay here just browsing instagram. The next best thing to FBing .... seriously. ..I love to view; more than to read the description of a picture .
So I type out a random topic that's handy and good for many health reasons.
I have a summer detox drink.Must say it's very popular with everyone. And for those who are new to this here's the recipe.

Detox summer quencher
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1.lemon - a big one
2.mint leaves - 10 nos
3. Cucumber  - 1
4. Water - a jug full ...yes u better drink more

Method
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Just cut the lemon into half. Squeeze the juice and drop it into the jug.
Wash approx 10 mint leaves nd dump it in
Slice a cucumber nd toss them too
Now fill up ur jug with water
Voila !!!! All done
Refrigerate it for a day
And keep sipping at it next day...all along

Benefits u ask ?
Well for first it's a detox drink nd secondly it reduces water retention. .
Good enough ain't it.
Now just go ahead and make urself this simple simple detox  drink

Pink Polka Blouse and Layers

Been very long, pretty loooooooooooooong, but those who have been reading my posts, will know that I have been absent for a while bcoz of my work. I am NOT Super efficient like many bloggers who work and yet manage to find time for penning down their thoughts. I seriously feel SMALL when compared to their highly innate ability to juggle chores.
But don't get me wrong for feeling low, nope, not when I am super-busy, trying my hands at all things (issues ) life can throw at me, and yet I try and read all fb posts and cheer myself up, to imagining myself to be a superwoman of my home.
Thanks for my fellow bloggers who managed to lemme know they cared.
Love'yaalll

Vaidehi (My sweetest blogger friend )
Ananya ( here u go, u asked for it , and now u have me reading ur beautiful write ups)
Asta (Thanks for stopping by dear )
Ashish (U motivate me always :-), time nd again wen I give up on things !!! )
Aditi ( The ethnic beauty, I adore for her Saree passion )

Now don't you all think my posts would be bare, without pics [ WINK ]
The outfit is all about layers, layered top,skirt and POLKA dot  POLKA dot (Madagascar style )

Saree and bling

I know I have been away for more than a month, and I am not here for the confession , but yes the explanation is simple- WaS BUSY !!!!
And I didn't mind my impending post , that got stacked up for over a month, but I was definitely upset, that even my workout had stalled. That on a serious note was never good, I became sick more frequently and I kept procrastinating .Was easy to skip my pills,workouts and all things good and healthy for my work.It's not satisfying to convince oneself when the repercussion of my lethargy towards health showed itself.
Hmmm!!!!
Lessons are good, we often need to be reminded in such a manner , else we always are the ones to keep our health the least ranked {Taken Granted  ..no more }

That's about my life in short....jeez l sounded morose, didn't I ...gosh !!!

But actually on the contrary I was jay and dedicated to working hard. And this saree post had been in draft  since Jan and now it comes.....At Laaaaaaaaast

World Record Fireworks in Dubai

Hello dear blog buddies,
                                    How have you been? Good? Yes I hope it's good, well you say No !!! , hey it's fine we all have good and bad days, just let the ones not in control pass by, you know you gave it your best. Ain't it.
        Lately, my life has just been hectic and all about feeling tired, each day, with multiple tasks ahead, but I know,it's all a matter of organizing to achieve results.So to all you folks, feeling incomplete with all the errands up the shoulder accruing each day, may be, just maybe it's all about prioritizing..
         Look at me, today I just feel,my day is gonna be better with a blog post to start with, which had been pent up for long.So here comes my pics that had been clicked exactly around the start of the New year 2014. :D
We went to watch the fireworks, it was a World record( Previous record held by Kuwait ). We loved the view. It was surreal and felt like a dream. But I couldn't stand out long b'coz it was very very cold, so enjoyed the view from the car while we had a ride along the path. The moment was just AMAZING !!!

The beam of light before the launch of the fireworks

Courtesy: WEB

"Plan everyday to be better not Perfect "

Just Busy

Been really MIA since the start up of my baby venture of clothing retail, though I had dreamed of it, never really knew when I would commence it. It was my dream even as a Programmer when I was working with Accenture. Clothing and "ALL things fashionable " had just been my way of stress relief. You too agree! Good we all do that don't we. Women and aesthetics are synonymous (*WINK*).
Out of all the busy crazy stuff, of juggling life, I can never miss out on my blogging, once a fortnight, is all that needs to give me the much needed leveling up to the scales of normalcy.

Here are my ethnic dressing  pics...Againnnn....

Until next time...signing off .....

Happy New year and No Resolutions

Happy 2014 !!! everybody. I hope all of you had a great time, rewinding the year 2013, the good and the bad.
I am sure good things, just don't have the impact and longevity of the memories of the unwanted episodes.So here's are a few pointers that may ease out , aspects for you, that are hard to forget or be absolved of, so that you may start your year with positiveness for yourself.

What to let go

1. Letting your happiness depend on people.
2. Expecting happiness in succession to sadness.
3. Expecting others to help you out of your problems.
4. The need to be right.
5. The temptation to cry and let it out.
6. The wanting to make all things right.
7. Trying to keep everybody satisfied.
8. Wanting to be accepted.
9. Beating about oneself, over something that's lost.
10. Cursing others for your situation.

What to inculcate

1. Being independent, is always the foremost that you need to try hard and learn to imbibe in life, coz the more you are dependent, the more you dig your way into helplessness.
2. We always take happiness for granted, until we start losing the small things, way too longer, to realize a change that can ,make it all come back.Well! don't worry, sometimes, the little things in life, can give you enlightenment, that you have long forgotten from your childhood, seek it , enjoy it.
3. Many days, we tell things to friends ,or family expecting empathy and help, but behold, don't get sucked in too deep, with the comfort zones, nobody is interested to help you,all time with favors, when the world is filled with injustice. Try solving 90% of your problems yourself,leave 5% to GOD and rest to friends and family for discussion and help, this way you would feel , that you, YOU are in control of your (heart & brain).
4. Never try to supersede an argument to be right, sometimes SILENCE is the act of Wise. Doesn't seem right to scream out to bring out your point, coz if it's right, it so shall be,despite being rubbished.
5. Give yourself the pampering,just relax, it's never in your hands to make everyday perfect, even the most perfect days , seem unsatisfactory, when you are accruing your task sheet, trying to be Perfect.
6. This is so important- Let go off the temptation to make everybody happy. It's next to impossible, just like the fingers of our hand, people vary in mindset,lifestyle,actions etc etc, trying to please/fulfill everybody's will, will just Burn you out,with a feeling of emptiness.You were not born to keep all happy.Be happy within your cocoon, definitely,it will radiate and everybody naturally will appreciate,even when you can't be there 100%.People who understand,will definitely stick by you, while those who disagree,will eventually say they were unhappy even with ur 100%(get it?...good)
7. Forgetting a painful past can be a painful redemption that we seek, but quite often it depends on our nonexistence and time to relieve it. SO,limit the time rethinking the regrets, nothings gonna change,even if you cry your eyes out or plead guilty,by tearing your soul apart, rest the pain and get going to WORK......yes..Housework,workout,office-work,pets...etc anything. Just move on

I hope my tidbits in small doses help you in some way to be a better "you"

Resolutions

I stopped making any resolution sometime around 2003, when I kept failing miserably at achieveing anything at all, well to be frank,none..Zilch,Nada.....what woks for me, is the ability to plan a day and work towards smaller goals and cover a mountain,than to carry a mountain a few inches forward.

Do you make resolutions? Do they work for you? If so , share them, would love to hear them !

Now over to my pics..........

Until Next time....Love and warm regards