Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Woollen Pencil Skirt

Do we ever take something/someone for granted?Perhaps yes, perhaps No, but for certain , our parents do fall under that category. How often we feel frustrated over petty things, just because they haven't provided it to us, the first time we had asked for it in childhood. Tantrums are common at that age, but what about adulthood?
    Do we take our friends/spouse/children for granted? This is a question that revolves around us, throughout our lives. I know how such attitude could lead to disputes, only because over time we start getting comfortable , getting the things without any question, that it's absence renders us into anger and frustration. Frustration is caused by disappointments, many instances in life we expect too much or too little from humans surrounding us.The latter makes us happy in surprise while the former sends us into sadness. It's always best to keep moving forward, with just expectations only from oneself, rest will happen over time, this attitude , though quoted easily than implemented, is something even I myself find " challenging".As humane we are made to be, as a person who listens to heart more,than logical reasoning , it becomes difficult, but once you let learn to calm down your self, whenever you have this disappointment, and temporarily focus on some other activity, you will soon learn to tackle being independent.
             There are many benefits to having this attitude

  • You have lesser frustrating days [ Read expectation]
  • You find you are stronger than what you imagined yourself to be.
  • You will see , that you are the reason for your failure and not others.
  • People around you feel more comfortable and understanding.
  • Lesser quarrels
  • You learn to appreciate , what is at hand
There are many more benefits to this, and it's not to be listed but rather experienced. So why don't you practice being self-sufficient sooner(If you are already! then way to goooo!!!) the better. 
To have a retrospective seldom on self -analysis, is a sure initiative to a positive living.




























































Black top - MAX
Wollen Skirt - Splash
Belt - Splash
Sandals - Paprika




6 comments:

  1. Love it ! The sweater is gorgeous. Nice pop of color via shoes and belt. I like the model poses too. You are so cute Rakhi.

    Asta
    Cactus and Cucumber

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    1. Thank you Asta, glad I amused you with my model poses :P

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  2. Great look! Love the way you added pops of color with your belt and shoes, which by the way are fab!!

    Ashley Udoh

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