Solitude

I used to write lot of poems during college, an art which faded down over the years....I can pen melancholic poems better and what best , when I can frame one of a fictional entity from my figment of imagination. Especially when I think of my late dad, and when I miss him a lot. I miss him for the amount of love,security,care,strength,confidence he imbibed in me with just mere things in life.I always miss his presence, and always drop a tear wishing he was NEAR. This father's day I missed you so much "Daddy"

In Silence there flows a tear

Resilience is a  fear

Never can the broken soul mend

What's spent shall never amend

How did I become the beast

The tearful prayer became just a feast

Why did I try to win,

When ultimately winning became sin,

If sin was the reward of sincere

Shall sincere become just a midnight leer.....

These were my pics taken few days before my birthday that happened to fall this month. 

I hope all of my blog readers have been doing good.Until next post, wishing you all a blessed life.

Woollen Pencil Skirt

Do we ever take something/someone for granted?Perhaps yes, perhaps No, but for certain , our parents do fall under that category. How often we feel frustrated over petty things, just because they haven't provided it to us, the first time we had asked for it in childhood. Tantrums are common at that age, but what about adulthood?
    Do we take our friends/spouse/children for granted? This is a question that revolves around us, throughout our lives. I know how such attitude could lead to disputes, only because over time we start getting comfortable , getting the things without any question, that it's absence renders us into anger and frustration. Frustration is caused by disappointments, many instances in life we expect too much or too little from humans surrounding us.The latter makes us happy in surprise while the former sends us into sadness. It's always best to keep moving forward, with just expectations only from oneself, rest will happen over time, this attitude , though quoted easily than implemented, is something even I myself find " challenging".As humane we are made to be, as a person who listens to heart more,than logical reasoning , it becomes difficult, but once you let learn to calm down your self, whenever you have this disappointment, and temporarily focus on some other activity, you will soon learn to tackle being independent.
             There are many benefits to having this attitude

• You have lesser frustrating days [ Read expectation]
• You find you are stronger than what you imagined yourself to be.
• You will see , that you are the reason for your failure and not others.
• People around you feel more comfortable and understanding.
• Lesser quarrels
• You learn to appreciate , what is at hand

There are many more benefits to this, and it's not to be listed but rather experienced. So why don't you practice being self-sufficient sooner(If you are already! then way to goooo!!!) the better. 

To have a retrospective seldom on self -analysis, is a sure initiative to a positive living.

Black top - MAX

Wollen Skirt - Splash

Belt - Splash

Sandals - Paprika

I am still a body In Progress

So Instagram was down for 2 days...It was a total bummer, ever since i discovered blogging, and being an expat, the only regular social fun I have are the Instagram,facebook,blogging etc. Had I been in India ,I doubt whether I would have been into blogging at all. Coz the people I visit and vice-versa were more, and I would have hardly had the time to take photos,edit,rant/essay about stuff etc. None of my real friends blog,except for an acquaintance who is a genius journalist.
                   The climate is gradually changing , and I am loving it, the sun starts setting by 4.30 evening, and it's cool over here in Dubai. I had the mood today, to try and wear full black. Black and white happens to be my favorite colours. I have too many blacks...during my FAT phases ( haaah......the illusion of BLACK), thought I know white is a BIG no no when plump , somehow I wear it...because of it's sheer elegance. I have been working out regular and dieting ( read eating right and in proportions).And though the work is in "Progress" , I love the slow transformation. I am steadily getting there. I have already lost 10 pounds,and I look forward to losing more.
         Certain blogs are a good read, they motivate me in many ways, and blogs that motivate us to stay fit are just my regular reads. You see I believe , just like the importance we give to dresses, the same should be given to our best ---Our rewarding bodies. It transforms us to a better individual. I can't emphasize how much of a great life change it is. Make it happen. Here are some pointers to get you started.

1. Join Pinterest- lot's of motivational quotes and bodies, to ogle at.
2. Read articles(rather blogs) of real people who sweat it out. (BikiniBodyMommy)
3. Watch transformation videos on Youtube.
4. Go through your past pictures, where you might have been perfect,but have sulken to an Indian image of plump,Tv watching couch potato.Housewives or working wives...come on you are meant to be sexy all time,you can be Hot like before.
5. Collect some dance tunes, start slow, "Something is better than nothing"
6. Initial stages are the hardest,and everybody gives up with 2 weeks or a month, but pursue,those ads that say results in few days or a month are just a fad.Real results start to be shown slowly.....(Read SLOWLY..Yesss)  after 3 months of regular workout atleast.
7. Have realistic expectations, and you are on your way to a better health,actually a New  beautiful YOU

I am sure many bloggers reading my blogs, can relate to the idea,that having a good body is the best outfit one can ever possess, when you look good naked..even a rag is gonna look good on you. Work hard and look best.Life is short and working out is an investment that gives returns in abundance, and it's free....Bring it on lovely people. :)

Top - M&M

Red Cardigan - Lulu's

Pants - Lulu's

Boots - ALDO

Bracelet - Splash

Hoops - M&M

Little Black dress , Be Responsible

Being responsible is a word of multi-facet. Crossing into an age, where I see myself having picked up lessons of life, seem to be just as empowering as morose I feel, coz  mistakes have been a part of my life, just like everyone, and I am not wise like others to learn from others mistake{adament}.Donno what drives me to jump into the fire thinking I have an ice shield{I was pampered by moi parents}. But all along I have tried to learn only from mistakes, but motherhood has made me wiser,patient and bearing.
Now it's all about being responsible for my actions...oh well..remember the facebook statuses of friends.....moaning and ranting about how...the "WHO" had crumbled their "LIFE"...come on ya'll, why should it be so. I was not smart like this ...during my teens..and I used to have the blame game going on, until I found, defending is what causes loads of other aggravation, and we might end up hurting ourselves. Think straight, maybe the other is right, maybe not, and if so,give a DAMN about the blames, and keep your head staright and walk[now don't go on a marchpast}, but always LISTEN, LISTEN....will you....It's wise to learn from others mistakes, true true....Lesson for life.
And if need be, never ever put up your emotional side as a status on facebook, especially people who play the good for nothing virtual time killers called "FARMVILLE", "MAFIA WARS"  etc etc .... games, coz they need to add n number of friends to progress each stage , and guess what you might have a wolf hiding out in a fake account, ready to utilize your emotions to their benefits.
         Learn from your life, fight it out, the best solution is only to fight it out with the pain inducer(YOU or HER/HIM), never with the world. Nobody understand your pains better than you, cry it out, pain is good, coz without pain, you would just never be a human who evolves, but a mechanical robot that breaks at the slightest malfunction.
     Get on your feet and get going. Nothing and nobody can stop your life from being splendid. It's just you, you alone......SO Be AWESOME!!!!
Let's get to the outfit post shall we