Happy New year and No Resolutions

Happy 2014 !!! everybody. I hope all of you had a great time, rewinding the year 2013, the good and the bad.
I am sure good things, just don't have the impact and longevity of the memories of the unwanted episodes.So here's are a few pointers that may ease out , aspects for you, that are hard to forget or be absolved of, so that you may start your year with positiveness for yourself.

What to let go

1. Letting your happiness depend on people.
2. Expecting happiness in succession to sadness.
3. Expecting others to help you out of your problems.
4. The need to be right.
5. The temptation to cry and let it out.
6. The wanting to make all things right.
7. Trying to keep everybody satisfied.
8. Wanting to be accepted.
9. Beating about oneself, over something that's lost.
10. Cursing others for your situation.

What to inculcate

1. Being independent, is always the foremost that you need to try hard and learn to imbibe in life, coz the more you are dependent, the more you dig your way into helplessness.
2. We always take happiness for granted, until we start losing the small things, way too longer, to realize a change that can ,make it all come back.Well! don't worry, sometimes, the little things in life, can give you enlightenment, that you have long forgotten from your childhood, seek it , enjoy it.
3. Many days, we tell things to friends ,or family expecting empathy and help, but behold, don't get sucked in too deep, with the comfort zones, nobody is interested to help you,all time with favors, when the world is filled with injustice. Try solving 90% of your problems yourself,leave 5% to GOD and rest to friends and family for discussion and help, this way you would feel , that you, YOU are in control of your (heart & brain).
4. Never try to supersede an argument to be right, sometimes SILENCE is the act of Wise. Doesn't seem right to scream out to bring out your point, coz if it's right, it so shall be,despite being rubbished.
5. Give yourself the pampering,just relax, it's never in your hands to make everyday perfect, even the most perfect days , seem unsatisfactory, when you are accruing your task sheet, trying to be Perfect.
6. This is so important- Let go off the temptation to make everybody happy. It's next to impossible, just like the fingers of our hand, people vary in mindset,lifestyle,actions etc etc, trying to please/fulfill everybody's will, will just Burn you out,with a feeling of emptiness.You were not born to keep all happy.Be happy within your cocoon, definitely,it will radiate and everybody naturally will appreciate,even when you can't be there 100%.People who understand,will definitely stick by you, while those who disagree,will eventually say they were unhappy even with ur 100%(get it?...good)
7. Forgetting a painful past can be a painful redemption that we seek, but quite often it depends on our nonexistence and time to relieve it. SO,limit the time rethinking the regrets, nothings gonna change,even if you cry your eyes out or plead guilty,by tearing your soul apart, rest the pain and get going to WORK......yes..Housework,workout,office-work,pets...etc anything. Just move on

I hope my tidbits in small doses help you in some way to be a better "you"

Resolutions

I stopped making any resolution sometime around 2003, when I kept failing miserably at achieveing anything at all, well to be frank,none..Zilch,Nada.....what woks for me, is the ability to plan a day and work towards smaller goals and cover a mountain,than to carry a mountain a few inches forward.

Do you make resolutions? Do they work for you? If so , share them, would love to hear them !

Now over to my pics..........

Until Next time....Love and warm regards